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I write about brave people. Agents who walk into dangerous situations knowing exactly what could happen. Firefighters who run toward the building everyone else is running away from. Men and women who put themselves between danger and someone who needs protecting.

But are they fearless? Absolutely not. At least, I don’t think the interesting ones are.

Because there’s a difference between being fearless and being brave. And I think that difference matters, especially in romantic suspense.

Fearless Sounds Good, But…

We use fearless as a compliment all the time.

• She’s fearless.
• He’s afraid of nothing.

But think about what that actually means. If you’re not afraid, there’s nothing to overcome.

Walking into a dangerous situation when you genuinely believe nothing bad can happen to you doesn’t require the same courage as walking into it while knowing exactly what you could lose.

That’s the character I want to write. The one whose heart is pounding. The one who knows the odds. The one who would really, really prefer another option. And goes anyway.

That’s bravery.

Sometimes Training Makes the Fear Worse

It’s easy to assume that the agent, firefighter, soldier, police officer, or security specialist isn’t afraid because they’re trained for dangerous situations. But training doesn’t necessarily eliminate fear. Sometimes it gives you a much better understanding of everything that can go wrong.

• The firefighter entering a burning building knows how quickly conditions can change.
• The agent approaching a dangerous suspect knows exactly what that person might be capable of.
• The experienced protector knows a plan can fall apart in seconds.

They aren’t walking into danger because they don’t understand it. They’re walking into danger despite understanding it. That makes their courage more interesting to me.

But You Don’t Need Training to Be Brave

Some of my favorite courageous moments belong to characters who aren’t trained for danger at all. They’re the people who have every reason to run. And don’t.

• Maybe someone they love is in trouble.
• Maybe they’re the only person who can help.
• Maybe they’ve spent most of the story believing they aren’t strong enough, only to discover that strength doesn’t always look the way they expected.

• They may be terrified.
• They may have absolutely no idea what they’re doing.
• They may even be thinking, This is a terrible idea.

And sometimes they’re right. 😂 But they do it anyway.

Courage doesn’t require knowing exactly what to do. Sometimes it means doing the best you can when you don’t.

Physical Danger Isn’t the Only Thing That Requires Courage

Here’s where romance complicates everything.

Give some heroes a dangerous mission, and they’re perfectly comfortable. Give them an honest conversation about their feelings, and suddenly we have a crisis. 😂

Apparently, bad guys are manageable. Emotional vulnerability? They may need backup. But that’s another kind of courage I love writing.

It takes courage to say:

• I need you.
• I was wrong.
• I’m scared.
• Don’t leave.
• I love you.

Especially for a character who has spent years believing that needing someone is a weakness.

A person can be incredibly brave in one part of life and terrified in another. That’s what makes characters feel human.

Sometimes Trust Is the Bravest Thing They Do

Romantic suspense gives characters plenty of reasons not to trust.

• People lie.
• Secrets are uncovered.
• Someone may not be who they claim to be.
• And occasionally there’s an actual killer involved, which tends to make relationship-building slightly more complicated.

So when a character finally chooses to trust someone, that decision can require tremendous courage.

Trust means giving someone the opportunity to hurt you.

Love takes that risk even further.

You aren’t merely handing someone information. You’re handing them your heart and hoping they don’t drop it.

For some characters, walking into danger is easier.

Love Gives Fear Something New to Work With

Something else happens when characters fall in love. They gain something to lose.

Before love, a hero might take risks without thinking twice. Then someone matters. Suddenly, surviving isn’t only about him anymore. Someone is waiting for him. Someone will grieve if he doesn’t come home. And maybe even more frightening, someone’s safety now matters more to him than his own.

Love doesn’t necessarily make a character less brave. Sometimes it makes them more afraid. And then asks them to be brave anyway.

That’s where romantic suspense gets especially interesting.

Courage Doesn’t Always Look Dramatic

Not every brave moment needs gunfire, flames, or a race against the clock. Sometimes courage is quiet.

• It’s making the phone call.
• Telling the truth.
• Asking for help.
• Walking away from something harmful.
• Giving someone another chance.
• Admitting that you’re not okay.
• Choosing to stay when every instinct tells you to run.

Those moments don’t always look heroic from the outside. But for the character experiencing them, they may require more courage than anything else in the story.

Give Me the Character Who Is Afraid

I don’t need my heroes and heroines to be fearless. Actually, I’d rather they weren’t.

• Give me the hero whose hands shake after the danger has passed.
• Give me the heroine who is terrified but refuses to abandon someone she loves.
• Give me the trained professional who knows exactly how bad the situation is and steps forward anyway.
• Give me the character who can face a villain without blinking but has to gather every ounce of courage to admit they’re in love.

Because bravery isn’t the absence of fear.

It’s what we choose to do while we’re afraid.

Sometimes the bravest thing a character can do isn’t face the person trying to kill them. It’s risking their heart on the person they hope will love them back.

Readers, which kind of courage gets you more in a story: the character who runs toward physical danger or the one who finally risks their heart?

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